Dating hot and cold treatment
It's a recipe for drama and heartache when you assume a role of a girlfriend when he himself clearly hasn't used that word to describe you.
I know What You Think: Is He Emotionally Unavailable Or Is He Just Not That Into You?
You have to be naturally busy and not always available or you will go berserk in no time.
No one has the time to “check in” constantly with someone they’re “just” dating.
This form of contact is perfect for abusers to “check in” with you to see what you are up to, to make sure that you are suitably “hooked” to their attention, and is a form of “idealization” which will place you on a pedestal that at first, seems irresistible.
What I found most interesting about the book was the discussion around narcissism and dating.
Most of the people you get involved with will fall far short of this full-blown personality disorder, but there are definitely people out there who have unjustifiably high self-esteem, and they are terrible relationship risks.